tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6113093752803375257.post5225359525716033106..comments2023-02-14T23:57:49.965-05:00Comments on Young Black Women Determined to Live Well: How bad do you really want it?Meenahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05153292875412825998noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6113093752803375257.post-77029162928208285402010-04-15T15:06:28.037-04:002010-04-15T15:06:28.037-04:00Sadly, as you get older, people you thought you we...Sadly, as you get older, people you thought you were on the same page with will prove themselves to be on their own (negative)path and you will have to distance yourself for your own sanity and safety. On the bright side, some folks will surprise you. They will mature and you will find you have shared values. And of course you will meet new people and it will be a relief that they didn't know you during your dorky awkward phases.<br />Last night, my fiance and I went out to dinner with another couple who is ir bw/wm. She was on the rival track team when we were in high school. She has a 4year old with a bm she realized was never going to marry her and she has now been married to her cute husband who she met at work for a year. So yes, let the "unfortunate and delusional" women of the world sign up to be serial babymamas and high school drop outs. You can choose to surround yourself with positive people and make smart choices. Ignore people who call you bougie or whatever and do not settle because those people will not help you when you are struggling with some 'helpabrothaout' type guy.Enoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6113093752803375257.post-4777130812715860672010-04-12T13:46:30.530-04:002010-04-12T13:46:30.530-04:00I used to get so worked up over bw trying to "...I used to get so worked up over bw trying to "stick it out" with no good bm just because he is black and trying to change them. Now I am just worrying about me...there's much less stress that way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6113093752803375257.post-2942649860522283662010-04-10T17:24:40.154-04:002010-04-10T17:24:40.154-04:00Living well sure is a privilege and I agree if you...Living well sure is a privilege and I agree if you have people around you who serve no purpose then they need to be out of your life asap.Beauty Is Diversehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10391862182408461540noreply@blogger.com